About
We built the tool we wishedexisted.
Most people-pleasing programs are PDFs in a course platform, or Sunday-night live cohorts you can't make. Pleaseless is what happens when you actually live with a people-pleaser brain and decide to fix it with the tools we have in 2026 — daily structure, AI rehearsal, scripts you can use Monday morning.
Why this exists.
The people-pleasing market is split. On one end: $20 books and $29 crash courses that explain the problem in 90 minutes and assume you can solve it on your own. On the other end: $250-an-hour therapists and $300-a-month coaching cohorts most people can't afford or schedule around.
What's missing is the middle. A program that's structured enough to actually change behavior, cheap enough to be a real choice, and built around what people pleasers actually need most: practice before the hard conversation, words for situations you haven't encountered yet, and a coach available at 2am when the family text thread blows up.
That coach is now an AI. We're fine with that. So is anyone who's ever had a 4am thought spiral they couldn't take to a therapist for two more weeks.
How it works
Diagnose, structure, practice.
Diagnose
The 2-minute quiz places you in one of 6 people-pleaser types — Caregiver, Approval-Seeker, Conflict-Avoider, Performer, Empath-Drained, or Family-Default. Your type changes the examples, scripts, and exercise sequencing in the program.
Structure
56 daily lessons over 8 weeks. Five minutes a day. Awareness in week 1, triggers in week 2, micro-boundaries in week 3, real boundaries in week 4, hard relationships in week 5, workplace in week 6, inner voice in week 7, maintenance in week 8.
Practice
The AI coach writes you scripts for your exact situation, plays the other person in roleplay so you can rehearse the hard conversation, and tracks the patterns you keep falling back into. One hour included. Add unlimited for $19/month, drop it when you don't need it.
Who we are
A small German company building tools for the rest of us.
Pleaseless is operated by Mikra Webtec e.K., a small company based in Nürtingen, Germany. We build evidence-informed digital programs at honest prices because behavioral change shouldn't require a referral, a copay, or a six-week waitlist.
We're not therapists. The program is education and structured coaching, not medical or psychological treatment. If you're in crisis, processing trauma, or working with a diagnosed condition, please work with a licensed therapist alongside (or instead of) Pleaseless.
Contact
Real humans, real email.
Operated by Mikra Webtec e.K., Im Malerwinkel 58, 72622 Nürtingen, Germany. See the imprint for full legal details.
Take the quiz. Find your type.
Two minutes. One real answer. Free script for one situation.
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